While browsing through the instagram, I came across the quotes which I must say very very true and meaningful. Definitely from life experiences. Absolutely nothing to do with hatred or grudge but it is a fact of life which I think right to share with everyone. Well, prevention is better than cure. Thanks to Baizurah Salleh for the post.
DON'T TRUST TOO MUCH
DON'T LOVE TOO MUCH
DON'T HOPE TOO MUCH
BECAUSE THAT TOO MUCH
WILL HURT YOU SO MUCH
Anyway, yesterday, right after receiving a phone call from the Bank Rakyat investment consultant, I thought why not give it a try. Straight away called the nearest Maybank enquiring about refinancing(frankly, this is not my 1st try though but i took it positively and get rid of all "keladak" and negative thinking). The officer incharged was very helpful and sincere enough to brief the actual scenario taking me as an example. "Puan biar saya berterus terang aje ya. Saya kira situasi agak susah kerana ditambah lagi puan tiada pekerjaan tetap dan seorang ibu tunggal , jadi memang susah dan mereka agak strict tapi kalau puan nak cuba tiada masalah". Fair enough.
The info has at least helped me to cancel one from my checkist for next week because I know it is not going to be a favourable outcome.
This reminds me of what Prof. Muhaya mentioned (more or less)in one of her TV 9 slot. "Jika kita dilanggar dan terpaksa membayar RM500 kita tidak perlu bergaduh dan marah marah tetapi sebaliknya berfikiran positif dan memikirkan bagaimana untuk mencari wang tersebut. She also mentioned about "rasa rendah diri, takut, putus asa adalah sifat keladak yang paling keladak".As in my case above, do not get frustrated but find the ways to solve the situation. First I have to get a job and the first issue tackled. Second, I have to change my status and I guess my problems solved!!?
In shaa Allah a great reminder but the point is when you are trying hard to get rid of all "keladak" the more you are gaining from others. Beyond your control."Bertepuk sebelah tangan tidak akan berbunyi" kerana hanya kita sahaja yang sibuk nyahkan semua keladak yang ada tetapi berurusan dengan peraturan dan manusia manusia yang memandang status dan penuh keladak di hati mereka.and please, "don't judge a book by its cover".
As a conclusion, hanya kebergantungan dengan Allah sahaja dan cukup hanya Allah sahaja penawar hati jika tidak di dunia in shaa Allah di kemudian hari.
Saturday, 27 April 2013
Friday, 19 April 2013
Test is a bless
Its the same feeling when challenges cannot be avoided. When something happens just like that, it takes time to cure and support from everyone is a real theraphy. Sometimes you might think are you asking so much ? Are they sinceeely listening to your grievances or are they doing it just for the sake of doing it. Every day when I wake up I try to remind myself, enough of that but at times I can't avoid sharing with others. It is a relief.......
Nevertheless I am not strong enough to do so but I am trying. "redha", "ikhlas" and talk to Him. Yes I will but the moment you are trying hard to educate yourself the more you are in pain. Just because there will be more tests and challenges ahead.
After almost ten months, this is life, it hurts so much, it is very bitter and full with pain. The demise of arwah Hanif is a real test to me and kids but surprisingly to some people thats not hard enough... I deserve more than that.
I thought everyone is pure and sincere thereafter but still there are some who are taking advantage, purposely creating unnecessary actions, "bukan apa, nak test saja Zan ni macamana melenting ke tidak itu saja". At this very moment of time, should I deserve to be tested again instead of getting support? What Allah tested me 10 months ago was still not worth it? Sampainya hati.......
"No matter how you behave with people around you, they will love you based on their NEED and their MOOD".
I need to be strong for the kids but only He knows how I truly feel.........Anyway "ikhlaskan diri" dan "redha".
A good lesson to myself. Be sensitive and it is not worth trusting too much although you might have known someone for ages.You actually thought so but you didn't.
Anyway I started to believe that MONEY TALKS!.........
Harith Iskandar the entertainer claimed that woman is more intelligent than man. "If at all u are a tiny germ and stucked in a waman's brain, it is really breathless and congested in there.Full with memories, folders and files. Unlike the man's brain which is very spacious and even your voice is echoing..:) "
-Lawak ke dir.
I am a waman and you are right Mr. Harith. The surroundings are driving me crazy.
"Ikhlaskan dirimu dan redhakan segalanya"
Nevertheless I am not strong enough to do so but I am trying. "redha", "ikhlas" and talk to Him. Yes I will but the moment you are trying hard to educate yourself the more you are in pain. Just because there will be more tests and challenges ahead.
After almost ten months, this is life, it hurts so much, it is very bitter and full with pain. The demise of arwah Hanif is a real test to me and kids but surprisingly to some people thats not hard enough... I deserve more than that.
I thought everyone is pure and sincere thereafter but still there are some who are taking advantage, purposely creating unnecessary actions, "bukan apa, nak test saja Zan ni macamana melenting ke tidak itu saja". At this very moment of time, should I deserve to be tested again instead of getting support? What Allah tested me 10 months ago was still not worth it? Sampainya hati.......
"No matter how you behave with people around you, they will love you based on their NEED and their MOOD".
I need to be strong for the kids but only He knows how I truly feel.........Anyway "ikhlaskan diri" dan "redha".
A good lesson to myself. Be sensitive and it is not worth trusting too much although you might have known someone for ages.You actually thought so but you didn't.
Anyway I started to believe that MONEY TALKS!.........
Harith Iskandar the entertainer claimed that woman is more intelligent than man. "If at all u are a tiny germ and stucked in a waman's brain, it is really breathless and congested in there.Full with memories, folders and files. Unlike the man's brain which is very spacious and even your voice is echoing..:) "
-Lawak ke dir.
I am a waman and you are right Mr. Harith. The surroundings are driving me crazy.
"Ikhlaskan dirimu dan redhakan segalanya"
Saturday, 13 April 2013
Mix & Shoppe
It's Saturday.....
Quite free to update. Finally, just completed the page with the assistance of my girls. Please feel free to visit the page :)
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Mix-Shoppe/355307031238093
Have a nice day :D
Quite free to update. Finally, just completed the page with the assistance of my girls. Please feel free to visit the page :)
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Mix-Shoppe/355307031238093
Have a nice day :D
Tuesday, 9 April 2013
The Manhattan Fish Market
Why are sardines the silliest fish in the sea?
Hi hi hi .....
A question printed on the serviette. ..
By the way it was great spending time and eating out with the kids. Exposed so much which Groupon offers since arwah was still around and great offers will be fully utilised by arwah. So, why not... and the only differnce now is that it is no longer with him...
The play land is just right opposite of Manhattan Fish Market restaurat. Hakim And Hanna had so much fun.
Hi hi hi .....
A question printed on the serviette. ..
By the way it was great spending time and eating out with the kids. Exposed so much which Groupon offers since arwah was still around and great offers will be fully utilised by arwah. So, why not... and the only differnce now is that it is no longer with him...
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| Undeniable..setiap kali nak menjamu selera ada lah yang cacakap"kalau papa ada ni......" itulah yang menitis air mata. |
The play land is just right opposite of Manhattan Fish Market restaurat. Hakim And Hanna had so much fun.
By the way I hope you guys are able to answer the question above ya or visit the restaurant and the answer is there for you:)
Saturday, 30 March 2013
Festival Pengantin Malaysia
www.acikcatering.com
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| PESERTA FESTIVAL |
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| HIASAN YANG DIPAMIRKAN UNTUK MENARIK PARA PENGUNJUNG |
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| PELBAGAI JENIS KEK DAN 'COOKIES' YANG DIJUAL |
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| ACIK CATERING There was a fashion show highlighting the latest wedding gowns and new designs as well. By the way, the best part was when Black Mentor performed three songs in the afternoon. Everyone enjoyed...........   |
Tuesday, 19 March 2013
Be Grateful
While waiting for our turn in Klinik Haiwan Yap yesterday, a lady and her son came in bringing along two kittens with them. Apparently, they claimed that the cute little kittens were found abandoned by the roadside. Alhamdulillah they were blessed when found by such a kindhearted family who is really concerned and sincere. Hopefully many more will have compassion and sympathy towards Allah's creatures, In shaa Allah. .......
By the way, it is not about the kittens that touched my heart, but her son. I didn't realise in the beginning until I noticed something was not right with him.
May I share my conversation with him while waiting for his mother being consulted by Dr. Yap.
Me : Siapa nama adik?
: Amirul.
Me : Umur Amirul berapa tahun?
Amirul : 4 tahun...eh tak 3 tahun. (Looking at Amirul I was surprised with his answer coz he appeared to be at least 17 years of age :) ).
Me : Amirul tak pegi sekolah ke?
Amirul : dah habis sekolah.
Me : Oh umur 3 tahun tapi dah habis sekolah ye. Lepas tu buat apa.
Amirul : Ikut ayah gi wepair(repair) keta. Keluar tayar masuk tayar. Ayah keja wepair keta.
Then both of us went into the room full with cats including Casey. There were SEVEN altogether...
Me : Amirul kira ada berapa ekor kucing semua dlm. bilik ni.
He started to count and answered,
Amirul : Ada 21 ekor sume, hi hi.....(Such a sincere respond and proudly claiming he counted them right).
Syakira and Hasya smiled at each other. I was right. After a while his mom came out and she claimed to me, "Anak saya ni memang bising sebab dia ni OKU, tulah hyper sangat".
That moment was really meaningful. Amirul, such a jovial but a less fortunate person. Nevertheless he is full of love, caring and concerned towards animals. We could see from his expressions and actions. As for his mother, I sincerely respect her as a very strong person. Despite the fact that she is raising a less fortunate son who needs special care and attention, she is still willing to look after the abandoned kittens, sending them to the vet to ensure they are fit and healthy. I pray for their happiness and blessings from Allah.
A reminder to me, my kids and to all that we should always be thankful, appreciate and grateful to Allah for the blessings rendered to us......
By the way, it is not about the kittens that touched my heart, but her son. I didn't realise in the beginning until I noticed something was not right with him.
May I share my conversation with him while waiting for his mother being consulted by Dr. Yap.
Me : Siapa nama adik?
: Amirul.
Me : Umur Amirul berapa tahun?
Amirul : 4 tahun...eh tak 3 tahun. (Looking at Amirul I was surprised with his answer coz he appeared to be at least 17 years of age :) ).
Me : Amirul tak pegi sekolah ke?
Amirul : dah habis sekolah.
Me : Oh umur 3 tahun tapi dah habis sekolah ye. Lepas tu buat apa.
Amirul : Ikut ayah gi wepair(repair) keta. Keluar tayar masuk tayar. Ayah keja wepair keta.
Then both of us went into the room full with cats including Casey. There were SEVEN altogether...
Me : Amirul kira ada berapa ekor kucing semua dlm. bilik ni.
He started to count and answered,
Amirul : Ada 21 ekor sume, hi hi.....(Such a sincere respond and proudly claiming he counted them right).
Syakira and Hasya smiled at each other. I was right. After a while his mom came out and she claimed to me, "Anak saya ni memang bising sebab dia ni OKU, tulah hyper sangat".
That moment was really meaningful. Amirul, such a jovial but a less fortunate person. Nevertheless he is full of love, caring and concerned towards animals. We could see from his expressions and actions. As for his mother, I sincerely respect her as a very strong person. Despite the fact that she is raising a less fortunate son who needs special care and attention, she is still willing to look after the abandoned kittens, sending them to the vet to ensure they are fit and healthy. I pray for their happiness and blessings from Allah.
A reminder to me, my kids and to all that we should always be thankful, appreciate and grateful to Allah for the blessings rendered to us......
"Look up to one who is greater in piety so you strive to be like him and
look upon one who is below you in material status so that you may be
thankful to Allah's Grace".In Shaa Allah.
Saturday, 16 March 2013
CASEY
What was wrong with me? It shouldn't have happened if I did not turn back.The old folks used to remind us " kalau dah mulakan perjalanan jangan patah balik tak baik". It happened last Thursday morning when Haziq wanted to attend his Co curriculum in school early in the mornig. It was fine at first but on our way he left something and insisted me to turn back. I did but not realising Casey our dearest cat was behind the car. Couldn't believe it and I unintentionally hit him!!
Seing Casey struggling for few seconds was never my dream. He was really writhing in pain when a neighbour passed by and claimed to us "he will die"....
I might sound crazy but to see him suffering makes me feel guilty. If only arwah is still around. Arwah Hanif adored him so much, in fact everyone does and will be my loyal mate listening to me especially during my grievances. As though he understands and responded well everytime talking to him.
Hurriedly brought him to the nearest vet and it was claimed Casey was hit seriously and the accident affected the whole nerve system. It is a 50 50 chances, may lead him to coma or total paralysed. I can't believe it and the worst part is that I was the person who caused everything. Its only a cat but Casey means a lot. The day he was admitted and after listening to the explanation, both of us (Hasya and me) were extremely upset. It happened just like that in seconds but unfortunately Casey has to suffer for his entire life. How I wish.... and if only.....
It has been two days. When we visited Casey yesterday and the moment we entered the room he was responding and making noise. I really hope and pray for miracles. Allah is great and we're still hoping Casey will recover, one day........
Seing Casey struggling for few seconds was never my dream. He was really writhing in pain when a neighbour passed by and claimed to us "he will die"....
Casey di dalam pejalanan ke klinik selepas kejadian.
I might sound crazy but to see him suffering makes me feel guilty. If only arwah is still around. Arwah Hanif adored him so much, in fact everyone does and will be my loyal mate listening to me especially during my grievances. As though he understands and responded well everytime talking to him.
Hurriedly brought him to the nearest vet and it was claimed Casey was hit seriously and the accident affected the whole nerve system. It is a 50 50 chances, may lead him to coma or total paralysed. I can't believe it and the worst part is that I was the person who caused everything. Its only a cat but Casey means a lot. The day he was admitted and after listening to the explanation, both of us (Hasya and me) were extremely upset. It happened just like that in seconds but unfortunately Casey has to suffer for his entire life. How I wish.... and if only.....
It has been two days. When we visited Casey yesterday and the moment we entered the room he was responding and making noise. I really hope and pray for miracles. Allah is great and we're still hoping Casey will recover, one day........
Kami melawat Casey di Klinik Haiwan Yap.
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