While browsing through the instagram, I came across the quotes which I must say very very true and meaningful. Definitely from life experiences. Absolutely nothing to do with hatred or grudge but it is a fact of life which I think right to share with everyone. Well, prevention is better than cure. Thanks to Baizurah Salleh for the post.
DON'T TRUST TOO MUCH
DON'T LOVE TOO MUCH
DON'T HOPE TOO MUCH
BECAUSE THAT TOO MUCH
WILL HURT YOU SO MUCH
Anyway, yesterday, right after receiving a phone call from the Bank Rakyat investment consultant, I thought why not give it a try. Straight away called the nearest Maybank enquiring about refinancing(frankly, this is not my 1st try though but i took it positively and get rid of all "keladak" and negative thinking). The officer incharged was very helpful and sincere enough to brief the actual scenario taking me as an example. "Puan biar saya berterus terang aje ya. Saya kira situasi agak susah kerana ditambah lagi puan tiada pekerjaan tetap dan seorang ibu tunggal , jadi memang susah dan mereka agak strict tapi kalau puan nak cuba tiada masalah". Fair enough.
The info has at least helped me to cancel one from my checkist for next week because I know it is not going to be a favourable outcome.
This reminds me of what Prof. Muhaya mentioned (more or less)in one of her TV 9 slot. "Jika kita dilanggar dan terpaksa membayar RM500 kita tidak perlu bergaduh dan marah marah tetapi sebaliknya berfikiran positif dan memikirkan bagaimana untuk mencari wang tersebut. She also mentioned about "rasa rendah diri, takut, putus asa adalah sifat keladak yang paling keladak".As in my case above, do not get frustrated but find the ways to solve the situation. First I have to get a job and the first issue tackled. Second, I have to change my status and I guess my problems solved!!?
In shaa Allah a great reminder but the point is when you are trying hard to get rid of all "keladak" the more you are gaining from others. Beyond your control."Bertepuk sebelah tangan tidak akan berbunyi" kerana hanya kita sahaja yang sibuk nyahkan semua keladak yang ada tetapi berurusan dengan peraturan dan manusia manusia yang memandang status dan penuh keladak di hati mereka.and please, "don't judge a book by its cover".
As a conclusion, hanya kebergantungan dengan Allah sahaja dan cukup hanya Allah sahaja penawar hati jika tidak di dunia in shaa Allah di kemudian hari.