ORIENTATION DAY

It was around 8.30am when Myra called reminding me about the orientation day.  Thank you so much.  Hanna was a bit late but alhamdulillah she managed  to join the others sitting for the placement test. All the best.

On the way to school she said to herself "papa hanna pergi sekolah ya".That was a true reminder to me that she misses arwah a lot......

Kidzania

Today is meant for kidzania trip with all the kids. We reached here quite early and parked in ikea which is more convenient . Wow a credit  should be given to Syakira and Hasya for being so coorperative in getting the best route (with the sssistance of waze). Its about timee to check  in. Continue later.........

Never say goodbye

LIFE OF PI just ended. An outing with all five of them today 12/12/2012. A story with full of emotions. believes and challenges to survive.  The last conversation touched my heart (it was something like this), " I cried because I was left without any say or goodbye........and  it broke my heart....." .

I felt the same way that very day (11/07/2012, 2.30pm), now and forever....

Life Management

Upon the demise of arwah last July, there have been many obstacles and issues that I have  faced and in fact still a lot to settle. For whatever reasons life has to continue and resposibalities as mama and papa go on. It was like solving a set of complicated jigsaw puzzle with no clue at all. From day to day, I patch them back accordingly although the procedures were quite detailed and very time consuming. Its  about time to share with everyone.

When arwah Hanif left, I was a housewife, quitted my full time job in 2010. The first thing in my mind was how to survive and raise my five children. It was a scary and confusing feeling. I felt unsecured. Sufficient fund was the main issue and to get back to work was quite challenging. I then thought it has to be a starting point and a check list was prepared.

SOCSO office was my first visit. As a private sector employee it is very important to inquire and refer depending on case to case basis for example the total contributions made and the amount entitled for. The SOCSO website is always availabe for reference.

http://www.perkeso.gov.my/

Alhamdulillah as for arwah's case, it was a favourable feedback.

When it was informed by SOCSO regarding the entitlement,  it was a relief to me and family. Nevertheless the officer claimed there are still many single mothers who are not aware about SOCSO. I hope my blog will at least create awareness to single mothers like me on the benefits and rights we should deserve.

Hope tocontiue in the next post.....

A Day to Remember

It was a double celebration and all of us gathered at the Island BBQ steamboat yesterday evening.

A very Happy Birthday to Mak/Nenek/Mak Unggal/Tok Unggal Saoma on her 78th Birthday. We wish you all the happiness in the world and may Allah bless you with iman, taqwa and good health.

It was also the 24th (I hope I'm right) Wedding Anniversary for Akak/Buji and Acik. Wishing you both moments of joy and happiness with dreams and memories that cherish your life, always......I am happy for both of you. As for me, I never thought my 18th.Wedding Anniversary last March (31/3/2012) was the last one.....

Everyone enjoyed the Island BBQ Steamboat buffet. A very convenient and nice place for family gathering. Located in Kg.Melayu Subang. The price is reasonable, RM22 for adult and RM10 for kids. Kids below 5 years eat for free. One of the places visited by 'Jalan-jalan Cari Makan TV3' as well. Further info. can be obtained from the webside below.

http://islandbbqsteamboat.wordpress.com/

Hanna - OTW

Sampai dan terus bergambar di pintu masuk'

Cucu2 perempuan tetapi dimanakah Aye?

Birthday 'girl' dan suami tercinta 

Till then.........

Caring is Hapiness

At last I am done with everything for today. Quite a fully occupied Saturday.

Being a single parent  requires plenty of time to ensure everyone's need is taken care. In fact all parents sacrifice their time for the same reason. 

At around 8.30 am, I sent Syakira for her first appointment.  She was a very busy lady attending her first ever theory driving class this morning and again this was one of the conversations between both of them (Arwah and her) when they chatted anddiscussed about her future plans early this year. 

The last three kids are very excited with their new bicycles.  One of the promises made by Arwah to his boys and Hanna. Some people seemed to think that I am too much in spending for them today but in sya allah I can still manage and do things wisely.

Half day has gone and its time for 'nenek' and the girls. A short visit to Jusco but hoped they enjoyed every single moment......

 Seronoknye mereka bergambar dengan Aweera (Mojo) 

Grandma and Grand daughters

My agenda continued with a quick grocery and food stuff for Snowy and Casey (Hasya's favourite).

Hanna & Snowy

Casey

Although it was quite an exhausted and restless day but I must admit the beautiful feelings of satisfaction, enjoyment and relief that touches me seeing whom you love are happy and satisfied.......

"Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people, brings happiness".

Hartamas Regency

Right after getting the breakfast ready yesterday morning, we headed to Hartamas Regency for a day trip.Not only me who went through the 'edah' period, so did the children. A complete nowhere.

Since yesterday there was no lecture and Syakira has finally finished her exam, we planned for a day trip to the condo.

Their happy moments were captured and they had fun.but still,  it was a different feeling........

On the way

 As soon as they reached the pool, "terus melepaskan tension"......

Haziq and Hanna

Syakira and Hakim

Hasya and Hanna

 Their two main activities, nothing else but swimming and eating.......

 

 

"Im a shy girl", Hasya  claimed.....

 

                                     "Dalam Kenangan"

 After spending for hours in the pool, we headed home at around 4.00pm.  It was nice seeing them enjoying their time together.......

26 November 2012, Without You

26 November, is arwah Hanif's date of birth. This year and in fact today, no more birthday cake and present, but only 'doa' to arwah papa. May Allah swt. in his infinite mercy bless his soul with forgiveness and  admit him in the eternal bliss of paradise, Al fatihah.....

This time I wish to share the memories, writings and contributions done by Arwah.  He did things based on due dates.  Arwah spent end of every month analyzing bulk of newspapers and summarised  into a three page column for his Dewan Ekonomi article. At times I assisted him with the translations. 

One of the articles written by arwah in the monthly "pelaburan" column/section.

''PASARAN LEBIH POSITIF MENJELANG 2012

22 Feb, 2012 Pelaburan admin Permalink

Oleh Mohd. Hanif Mohd. Helmi

Pada bulan Disember 2011, Indeks Komposit Kuala Lumpur FBM mula meningkat kembali. Indeks mula melepasi tahap 1500 mata pada 27 Disember dan terus berada pada paras yang setara sehingga akhir bulan. Indeks ditutup dengan 1530.73 mata pada hari terakhir bulan Disember, berbanding dengan 1472.10 mata pada bulan sebelumnya. Perbezaan ini menunjukkan kenaikan sebanyak 58.63 mata (3.98 peratus).

Unit dagangan juga turun sedikit, dengan 35 398.92 juta unit berbanding dengan 37 993.89 juta unit pada bulan November 2011. Unit dagangan harian berada pada paras di atas 1000 juta unit pada setiap hari kecuali pada 23 Disember 2011.

Rencana ini dipetik daripada Dewan Ekonomi Februari 2012.''

At the same time he was also contributing to the Malaysian Institute Of Accountant (MIA) writing the case studies and many more. He was also lecturing one of the MIA papers. Please share this last piece of work planned with MIA as one of the moderators.

Symposium Programme - DAY 2

11 .15 am  Ethical Issues Facing the Accounting Profession 

Issues of business ethics are widely discussed in the professional. The scandals in recent years clearly show the need to instil in students, who will become the future managers of businesses, the importance of ethics. Can business ethics be taught?

Moderator : • Assoc. Prof. Mohd Hanif Mohd Helmi, Deputy Dean of Bank Rakyat     School of Business and Entrepreneurship with UNIRAZAK

Adapted from MIA brochure NATIONAL ACCOUNTING EDUCATORS SYMPOSIUM (NAES) 2012, 16 & 17 JuLy 2012, MONDAY & TUESDAY, SUNWAY PUTRA HOTEL , KUALA LUMPUR 

Earlier in the brochure extract as above, he was acknowledged as one of the symposium moderators, but nevertheless his sudden demise on the 11th July2012 had turned to be part of the contents in the keynote address of the President. It was very sad indeed when I read it in the MIA website recently. I hope his good deeds has and will keep on benefiting everyone and may we share the appreciation by MIA President, Datuk Mohd. Nasir Ahmad for our remembrance......

*Before I proceed with my speech, I would like to request from all present to observe a moment of silence to remember and pray for the late Associate Professor Mohd Hanif Mohd Helmi, the Deputy Dean of Bank Rakyat School of Business and Entrepreneur with UNIRAZAK who passed away peacefully on 11 July 2012. (Al - Fateha prayers for Muslims) Thank you.*

Read more  http://www.mia.org.my/new/news_details.asp?ID=2242#bLP6iajtABLIBUyz.99

May I share the moments together with Arwah......

The demise of Allahyarham Mohd. Hanif on the 11th of July 2012

 

 

Recent visit on the 24th November 2012 (10th Muharram)

"DOA" from Hanna is always for you Papa

We will remember and pray for you, always.....AL-FATIHAH ...........

(26 November 1970 - 11 July 2012)