Sarcasm

What does it mean? The use of words that mean the opposite of what u really wanna say eapecially to insult someone.

A typical way of attacking the other party whom u think has hurt ur feelings.  It may be a spontanious action or vice versa. I experienced that too, unexpectedly.  By the way it depends on a person. If u think by being sarcastic  could be able to let go the grudges and dissatisfaction, then go ahead practising it. Its a negative habit though. But no doubt,  sometimes it works, sometimes it hurts.
"Dulu masa mula2 kena musibah dulu asal telefon menangis, menangis tapi bila dah senang , terus senyap". Macamtu lah lebih kurang ayat sarkastik pada saya. Apakan daya, itulah namanya dugaan, sabar tu perlu. Pada saya kalau di praktikkan esp depan ank2, tak bagus juga.  Janganlah salahkan mereka bila satu hari mulut mereka pula kenakan kita sebab kita cikgunya. Bak kata pepatah, mulut ni lebih tajam dari mata pisaukan. Betul ke ayat saya ni....

Saya sebenarnya lebih terpanggil dengan isu buku kata2 Fattah Amin, pelakon yang sedang meningkat naik. Tapi sayangnya jadi viral bahan ejekan dan ketawa kebanyakan manusia di muka bumi Malaysia ni. It describes our Malaysian mentality. Sangat suka menghakimi semua perkara tapi cara negatif. Saya menulis blog kadang2 untuk memberikan nasihat secara tersirat esp kepada ibu tunggal seperti saya. Mungkin juga ada yang jadikannya sebagai bahan ketawa. Wallahualam.

Yang lagi hairan bila syarikat kapal terbang gah pun dengan sarkastiknya menggunakan kata2 beliau untuk menterjemahkan markting strategy mereka. Padan muka akhirnya ada yang response balik dan mengenakan syarikat penerbangan tu. "Angan2 nak naik kapal terbang bila dah dapat tiba2 "hang", tiba2 harga jadi mahal!".(macamtulah lebih kurang response bagi balik pada ayat sarkastik airline tu). Serves it right!!!

Kita selalu lantang bercakap atau menulis tanpa memikirkan perasaan orang lainkan. Main cakap aje, lepas tu tak mengaku , kata mana ada. Persekitaran yang tidak sihat jika dibiarkan. When u think about it, Fattah Amin does not lose a penny, but he gains instead! If not in monetary terms (i dont think im right), but this is a good way of being famous in this wide world. I rarely keep myself updated with the lifestyles of the rich and famous people, but because of the book issue it is indirectly takes my attention! Itu baru saya seorang , kalau ramai lagi macam saya bertambah famouslah beliau. Artis dan populariti, barulah boleh berjayakan.

Morale of the story, to Fatah Amin keeps writing! It makes u being more recognised and famous and the most vital one is tht, ur words can inspire others. Yang dah biasa buang masa tak tentu arah kat klcc melepak tanpa hala tuju, berborak kosong kat klcc mungkin ketawakan u. Tapi just imagine those who stays in the kampung jauh nun dihujung kedah, sudah pasti mereka terkesan dan jadi pembakar semangat untuk maju dan berjaya. Apapun, keep on writing aslkan yang baik2 saja kerana bukan hanya inspire orang yang susah, tetapi juga itulah juga bekalan di sana nanti. Bila kita didik ilmu yang baik ada ganjarannya, tapi syaratnya yang baik2 saja.

To all Malaysian, time to change, our mentality, sudah2 lah perlekehkan usaha orang, rezki irang, selalu berbaik sangka, cakap yang elok2 , fikir yang elok2. Syukur , sabar dan redha. Itu yang penting.

Power of FORGIVENESS

As salam and hi to all,
My nephew, Duan shared this piece of article in our family whtts app. I find it very interesting and meaningful to share with everyone. The real facts of life to all of us . Enjoy reading!!

A man married a beautiful girl. He loved her very much. One day she developed a skin disease. Slowly she started to lose her beauty. It so happened that one day her husband left for a tour. While returning he met with an accident and lost his eyesight. However their married life continued as usual. But as days passed she lost her beauty gradually. Blind husband did not know this and there  was not any difference in their married life. He continued to love her and she also loved him very much.
One day she died. Her death brought him great sorrow.
He finished all her last rites and wanted to leave that town.
A man from behind called and said, now how will you be able to walk all alone? All these days your wife used to help you.
He replied, I am not blind. I was acting,  because if she knew l could see her ugliness it would have pained her more than her disease. So I pretended to be blind. She was a very good wife. I only wanted to keep her happy.

Moral:- *Some times it is good for us to act blind and ignore one another's short comings, in order to be happy*


*No matter how many times the teeth bite the tongue, they still stay together in one mouth. That's the spirit of FORGIVENESS. Even though the eyes don't see each other, they see things together, blink simultaneously and cry together. That's UNITY." May the Lord grant us all the spirit of forgiveness and togetherness*.

 1. _''Alone I can 'Say' but together we can 'talk'._
  2. _"Alone I can 'Enjoy' but together we can celebrate_

  3.  _'Alone I can 'Smile' but together we can 'Laugh'._

   *That's the BEAUTY of Human Relations. We are nothing without each other*
  STAY CONNECTED

            *QUOTE OF THE DAY*
_The razor blade is sharp but can't cut a tree; the axe is strong but can't cut the hair._
   *MORALS*; *Everyone is important according to his/her unique purpose,Never look down on anyone unless you are admiring their shoes*.

"If we can find forgiveness in our hearts for those who have caused us hurt and injury, we will rise to a higher level of self-esteem and well-being".😊😊